- Rushing into a divorce before you understand your options. Today there are many different ways to divorce, including mediation, Collaborative practice and traditional methods. Yet most people start their divorce without ever getting a full, competent explanation of their options. Getting a competent explanation of all choices requires research (For a summary of options go to www.divorcechoice.com).
- Letting Emotions run the show. Divorce often creates intense feelings of fear, anger and sadness. While those feelings may be natural, even healthy, letting those feelings drive your decisions, will often result in regrettable decisions.
- Losing sight of the priorities. Divorce can have a sense of urgency that causes people to lose sight of their most important goals. Intense focus on urgent problems can distract you from more important issue. Identifying your big picture goals at the beginning of the process will help you get a better outcome.
- Believing that hardball tactics will help them get better outcomes. Many divorcing people mistakenly believe that hardball tactics will help them achieve a better outcome in their divorce. However, these hardball tactics usually backfire and almost always produce poor outcomes. Finding a divorce process that protects your interest through more civilized and productive strategies will help you avoid this type of financial and emotional disaster.
- Thinking of divorce as only a legal issue. Because divorcing starts as a legal proceeding, it is easy to focus solely on the legal issues. However, in most divorces, there are financial, emotional and child development decisions to be made that will likely have a greater impact on your life. Getting help from mental health professionals and financial experts, in addition to attorneys can help you address these other important issues.
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